For Women Only!
by
Pamela Redmond Satran
Author of "The Man I Should Have Married"
TIPS FOR EVERY WOMAN
WHAT EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
One old love she can imagine going back to, and one
who reminds her how far she has come...
Enough money within her control to move out and rent
a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to...
Something perfect to
wear if the employer or date of
her dreams wants to see her in an hour...
A youth she's content to leave behind...
A past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling
in her old age...
A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black
lace bra...
One friend who always makes her laugh, and one who lets
her cry...
A full piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone
else in her family...
Eight matching plates, wines glasses with stems, and
a recipe for a meal that will make her guest feel honored...
A feeling of control over her destiny...
WHAT EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to fall in love without losing herself...
How to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront
a friend without ruining the friendship...
When to walk away...
That she can't change the length of her calves, the
width of her hips, or the nature of her parents...
That her childhood may not have been perfect, but its
over...
What she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
How to live alone, even if she doesn't like it...
Whom she can and can't trust, and why she shouldn't
take it personally...
Where to go, be it her best friend's kitchen table or
a charming inn in the woods when her soul needs soothing...
What she can and can't accomplish in a day, a month
or a year...
This article
originally appeared in Glamour Magazine
